Amber Skye Forbes

Writing Words With the Tips of My Toes

Advice to Young Writers

tumblr_mmkxkqNXQQ1sqwr7co1_500 I am not here to deliver any harsh reality advice about being a writer because there is enough of that nonsensical advice floating around. I want to put a stop to that because I see a lot of young writers divvying out this advice, and I’m not sure where they’re getting it from. Jaded writers who had to *gasp* work really hard to get published? Jaded writers who had to *gasp* put up with rejection? Just stop giving out advice that basically tells writers why they don’t want to be writers. Yeah, writing is hard and time consuming and maybe soul sucking from time to time, but it is not for other writers to decide who should stick with writing and who shouldn’t. That is up for the individual writer alone to decide, not you. Never you. All you need to be doing is writing.

So here’s some positive advice to encourage you, rather than deter you.

Writing is freaking hard but so is anything worthwhile. You’re young. Most likely your writing won’t be publishable until you’re older–and I’m talking about publishable for the big leagues, not your school newspaper or anthology, though that is still pretty cool. And even if you do get published, that won’t be your best starting out. I don’t think When Stars Die will be my best starting out. I’d like for it to be, but I’m 22 going on 23. I still have so many years left in my life to improve my craft.

Don’t be in a hurry to publish. Have you ever noticed that when teen writers make mistakes, reviewers excuse them on the basis that they’re teens? But when adult writers make mistakes, they’re chastised as bad writers? You want to make the best darn first book you can, so don’t be in a hurry to find an agent who will launch you to publishing stardom. Take your time. I’m so glad I took my time.

Don’t write to become rich, but it doesn’t mean you can’t dream about it.  I always say set your goals high so you work that much harder. My dream is to be a full-time writer, and I am going to work super hard to make that a reality. I’m going to keep writing and doing the best that I can to make certain I am noticed.

Don’t let anyone tell you you’re a crap writer. “The expert in anything was once a beginner.” It’s going to be rough starting out, but you’re going to get better. You know why? Because you have to. Because you have options now. You can self-publish, and while it’s not easy, it means you can get your work read by others and earn money. That option didn’t exist when I was thirteen or fourteen or even eighteen. Self-publishing has always been around, but it was never accessible without thousands of dollars. And you’re young! The writing will always be there, and there are so many resources out there that can help you better your writing. Have fun with it. Remember why you started writing and stick with it.

And last, don’t act like you’re an expert, because you’re probably not–hence why I seethe when I read such negative advice from such young writers. You may have had an essay published or even a short story, but you know as much about the business as someone unpublished. The business is fickle, ever changing, so don’t profess to know it. I don’t profess to know it at all.


17 comments on “Advice to Young Writers

  1. Charles Yallowitz
    May 27, 2013

    Reblogged this on Legends of Windemere and commented:
    Great positive advice for young writers.

  2. crankycaregiver
    May 27, 2013

    Applause…applause…applause. As a new writer and blogger, I have been lucky enough to have only been exposed to those who have been supportive and encouraging. I have read some “experts” who have dished out some really negative views on writing and I neither follow them or comment on them.

    But, I also smile at these so-called experts…oh, how brilliant and knowledgeable I was when I was young…it took years to learn that I had much to learn.

    Great post!

    • amberskyef
      May 27, 2013

      Writing is a neverending endeavor, and I know I’m always learning something, be it writing-wise or business-wise. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to call myself an expert.

  3. IsabellaStines
    May 27, 2013

    Reblogged this on Isabella Stines and commented:
    Some awesome advice to young writers (or the not-so-young-writers who are just starting out)!

  4. Sharena (Shay Dee)
    May 27, 2013

    Only last year I was exposed to these “experts” and I have to say I’m so thankful that when I was in my teens I had no internet, just my blue bic pen and a million exercise books; nothing to deter me!
    Fast forward a few years and young writers have access to the internet and bad advice waiting to put them off. I think it’s really sad and truth be told, we need more posts like this.


    • amberskyef
      May 27, 2013

      Thank you so much for the re-tweet! I see bad advice littering where Tumblr, where writers flock to. That’s what prompted this post. It’s already not easy being a writer. Why such negative advice.

  5. Minuscule Moments
    May 27, 2013

    Loved it all good advice from someone scrambling her way through the halls of learning the craft. It is something I must do no matter what. I agree about taking your time and learning the rules so you may bend them when needed. Practice, practice practice and then ship thank you for brightening my day.

    • amberskyef
      May 27, 2013

      Aww! I’m glad I was able to add some light into your day. ^_^

  6. frannystevenson
    May 27, 2013

    Thanks for your advices!I’m not young anymore,I’ve been taking looooong but I hope to get there!We need more advices like yours out there!

  7. Saunved
    May 28, 2013

    Loved this post of yours. I am a young writer too, and it certainly made sense to me! 😀

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